“After I broke up with my toxic, controlling and abusive ex I'm feeling like no one is gonna love me not even my parents has supported me after knowing abt my relationship whenever my family talks abt my marriage I feel afraid of what if I ended up getting a partner like my ex what if my future life feels like hell I've cried a lot during my relationship like every single day he used to torture me mentally and I ended up crying a lot every single day and after break up my mind is just against marriage or relationship I just wanna be independent and live alone but my parents are not supportive at the same time I'm living at my uncle's house after my breakup cuz my parents gave me only two choices: either you are getting married or get out and I am not in the state of marrying someone even after one year of breakup how could I marry someone at the time when I broke up from a toxic relationship so I chose to not marry and they kicked me out my uncle and aunt helped me a lot and currently I'm staying at their home studying but I don't know how will I be able to escape from being married...”
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Someone answered with kindness...
by being financially independent, as that will provide you with a cushion to keep you warm till you get married
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Another soul answered...
Become independent dont depend on others even if it is your parents depending on them gives them the power to control you do small part time jobs do wtever u can to be independent