“actually idk really what to do there is this man that i have been seeing for almost 3 years now on and off so at first I made it clear to him that I won't loose my virginity before marriage I mean that was just my boundary and he was okay with that but later this year we were arguing like usual over somthing very bare minimum (asking for his time) and i just got pissed and blocked him after 20 days idk why but I missed him and texted him that I miss him and all that we were talking and I wanted to get back and solve things but he said that he needs physical intimacy but idk I just couldn't bring myself to do that because of the constant disrespect no proper safety no assurance so I just could not. But for him i was ready to cross my boundary I told him I'll do everything but I just need to build the trust and be comfortable w you, w myself around you i just need some time but he was not ready he said he wanted it now and now only, he couldn't wait at all he said he loved me but sometimes I just feel like did he? i mean someone who really loves someone for them isn't love just enough? i maybe wrong but yeah I respected his needs and left. he said if I'm okay w that then we can work this out or else I just don't wanna stretch it any longer than it already has.”
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Leave him.....a partner is someone who should be willing to love you no matter what.....your parnter is going to be the one who has to support you at child birth,at your parents funeral, through every boring days,through every tough days.....relationships shouldnt be build through physucal intimacy emotional intimacy is much more important a man who cant respect your decision isnt your man......never compramise your values and boundaries for a littlebit of love.