“About 1½ years ago, some random guy from my church (who is basically 2, 3, or 4 years older than me) asked me if I had a boyfriend. I was 16 at the time, studying in +2, and I said, "Yes, I have a boyfriend," even though I didn't. I wasn't interested in a relationship, and I didn't want to lead him on.
As the days passed, I started noticing him and thinking about him. Basically, I became obsessed with him! I wished he would message me again.
Then, about a year later, around four months ago, he messaged me again. I had moved away to a different place, not too far but still far enough. He told me that he had a crush on me, and I told him that I wasn't interested in a relationship.
He doesn't know that I have a crush on him. But I don't think I want a relationship either. However, he's still messaging me, sending me reels, and everything.
I wanted to stop leading him on, so I thought about not replying to his messages. But he said that I wasn't giving him any hope and asked me not to ignore him. Yesterday, I made up my mind and talk to him like it is wrong when I give him false hope and everything. And finally I blocked him. I can actually feel that weight in my chest😭😭😭.... I just can't stop crying. I feel like I miss him😭
I don't know what to do. Am I a bad person?🥲”
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Someone answered with kindness...
why would u do that I mean u like that guy back so why to act like u don't . Its worth giving a chance to a relationship with him . U aren't a bad person btw dont worry about that . But just don't hurt him
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Another soul answered...
Nahhhh oh hell nahh you ain't a bad person bro actually you did smthing good you were aware of your boundaries and your limits and didn't gave him fake hopes did not extend his expectations that's so thoughtful of you omg I'm sooooo proud of you you did a very good job handling the situation in the maturest way possible okayyyy sooo now don't think bout it much you fr did smthing good thank good you did this and did not have him fake hopes so now he can eventually move on from you and won't be stuck on you even ik that you'll miss him smtimes miss his presence that he used to text you but it's fine the people who are genuinly destinied to be in your life will be there and who are not will eventually find their way outtt so don't worry ml you did a veryyyyyy good job im proud of you mwahhh-V
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Another soul answered...
please leave that man soul alone, he does not deserve you, let him find other people that are willing to love him and not people who are toying with his heart