A work friend and I have become super close. We talk on the phone and text each other late into the night, and she opens up to me about everything bothering her. I've fallen for her, but I have zero idea if she has feelings for me too.
Whenever we speak or message, she is super involved and seems to love talking to me. But the moment I try to arrange a time for us to hang out, she cancels every single time. Sometimes her reason sounds totally true, but other times it feels like a soft excuse.
All of this makes me feel totally confused about where we stand. I just don't know what to do about this or how to act next.

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A work friend and I have become super close. We talk on the phone and text each other late into the night, and she opens up to me about everything bothering her. I've fallen for her, but I have zero idea if she has feelings for me too.
​Whenever we speak or message, she is super involved and seems to love talking to me. But the moment I try to arrange a time for us to hang out, she cancels every single time. Sometimes her reason sounds totally true, but other times it feels like a soft excuse.
​All of this makes me feel totally confused about where we stand. I just don't know what to do about this or how to act next.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Well it's totally fine. I think if u genuinely have feelings for her it's better to open up because in most of the cases relationships don't happen coz of not taking that leap. 
Just becoz she find lame excuses doesn't mean she don't have the same feeling. Maybe she is just confused as you are