3 yr ago i met a boy from a game after we fell in love . He told me he lives in Australia and works there he used to send me snap on daily basis, 1 month ago i get know that he wasn't the real person he was just faking it by using picture of influencer , and everything's he ever told me was fake . Because he was sending real time snap i never doubt him i was stupid enough to trust him when ever i ask him for VC he give excuse of WiFi issue.
The real person has no clue i exist only he is very active on social media and snap so this person got so many pictures to make storys.
Idk how to move on from this the fake person had deleted his account after i confronted him.

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3 yr ago i met a boy from a game after we fell in love . He told me he lives in Australia and works there he used to send me snap on daily basis, 1 month ago i get know that he wasn't the real person he was just faking it by using picture of influencer , and everything's he ever told me was fake . Because he was sending real time snap i never doubt him i was stupid enough to trust him when ever i ask him for VC he give excuse of WiFi issue. 
The real person has no clue i exist only he is very active on social media and snap so this person got so many pictures to make storys. 
Idk how to move on from this the fake person had deleted his account after i confronted him.

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

(just to let you know, im a random girl on the internet)
omg love, that feels soo bad cuz attachment isnt a joke. but listen, it might feel like the end of the world but life just goes on. it might be the most cruelest thing, but helpful for you at the same time. You cant move on from 3 years of life within a day or two. It's going to take time love. but always know that time is the biggest healer. this traumatic experience may have given you many tryst issues, but the good thing is that you wont trust anyone blindly all over again.
just trust god, leave everything on him and let time heal you. Another talk with that person wont make you feel any better because it was all made up to trap you.
my advice would be to slowly start working on yourself, just so things can slowly cool down for you.

in my opinion, the wound is very deep, and it will obviously take alot of time to heal. Try to keep yourself busy in order to avoid all sorts of thoughts, because that's what i usually do.

You need to give yourself alot of time. and honey, there wouldnt be a day when you'll completely heal from something. Life just eventually gets you too busy to forget about your problems. and if after a very long time, you get flashbacks, it'll still hurt. that's just how deeply enrooted love is

but please take care of yourself :)
and i hope you dont try to harm yourself in any way
∼ A stranger on the internet <3